How to Turn Connections into Lifelines: The Executive Coach’s Strategy for Networking


In today’s professional landscape, networking isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a lifeline. As an executive coach, I’ve witnessed firsthand the transformative power of networking when approached as a daily habit rather than a sporadic activity. In this blog, we’ll explore why networking should be a cornerstone of every executive’s routine and how nurturing relationships can pay dividends in the long run.

Networking as a Daily Habit

Networking isn’t a one-time event or something to be done only when in dire need. It’s a habit that should be cultivated daily, like exercising or eating healthily. Whether in person or online.

  • Engage authentically with others.
  • Build genuine relationships over time.
  • Put in consistent effort and nurturing.
  • Offer support and add value to others’ lives.


Engaging and Building Relationships

Effective networking isn’t just about collecting business cards or LinkedIn connections; it’s about engaging with people and building genuine relationships. As an executive coach, I emphasize the importance of authenticity and sincerity in every interaction.

Putting in Effort Over Time

Networking isn’t a quick fix; it’s a long-term investment in your career and professional growth. Cultivating meaningful connections requires consistent effort and nurturing.

  • Access to career opportunities.
  • Source of valuable advice and mentorship.
  • Platform for professional development.
  • Community of support and collaboration.


Networking Throughout Your Career

Networking isn’t a one-time task; it’s an ongoing process that evolves with your career. Cultivating and maintaining relationships should be a priority for both established and new professionals.

Building Trust and Support

Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship, including those in your professional network. By consistently demonstrating integrity, reliability, and genuine interest in others, you can earn the trust and support of your network.

The Power of Grace

Establishing genuine relationships provides a cushion of grace for moments when you need assistance. As an executive coach and a professional, I’ve witnessed how a history of mutual support and camaraderie can lead to a willingness to help, even after years of minimal contact, as I speak about further in the next section.

Leveraging Your Network Strategically – This is one of my “soapboxes.”

One of the biggest mistakes I see in my coaching practice is executives waiting until they’re in desperate need before actively building their network. Strategic networking involves proactively connecting with others, offering support, and adding value to their lives.

This realization came through personal experience and coaching. Over the years, I’ve witnessed the power of building relationships and investing time in nurturing them. In my coaching practice, I often encounter individuals who come to me for help because they’ve “exhausted” their network in a job search or are suddenly searching for a new network after months of job search.

It’s akin to starting at the bottom of a mountain, with a daunting climb ahead. However, it’s not just about the climb’s difficulty; it’s about the missed opportunities that could have been seized along the way. That’s why I advocate for strategic networking throughout one’s career.

Establishing and maintaining relationships over time builds trust and support and provides a safety net when you need it most. I experienced this recently when a former colleague I hadn’t been in touch with for almost two decades reached out for a referral. Despite the years of minimal contact, our history of mutual support and collaboration made it easy for me to respond with “grace” and help.

This contrasts with the random LinkedIn connection that contacted me for a referral after just one conversation. Yes, this too has happened. While networking platforms like LinkedIn can be valuable tools, they’re no substitute for genuine relationship-building. Building a network isn’t about transactional exchanges; it’s about cultivating meaningful connections and offering support without expecting immediate returns. Both in person AND online, meaning on LinkedIn and Facebook.

So, as you move forward on your professional journey, know that strategic networking isn’t just about who you know; it’s about how well you know them and the depth of your relationship. Invest the time and effort to build genuine connections, and you’ll find that your network can be a lifeline in times of need.


Avoiding Transactional Networking

Transactional networking, where interactions are solely focused on extracting value or favors, is short-sighted and damaging to relationships.

  • Damages relationships.
  • Creates a sense of distrust.
  • Limits long-term opportunities.
  • Diminishes the value of networking efforts.


Conclusion

In conclusion, networking isn’t just a tool for job seekers or drastic situations; it’s a strategic imperative for every professional. By approaching networking as a daily habit, building relationships, and putting in consistent effort over time, you can cultivate a network that is a lifeline throughout your career. As an executive coach, I’m here to support you on your networking journey, offering guidance and expertise every step of the way.

Now is the time to take action and invest in your network strategically. Whether establishing connections online through platforms like LinkedIn or nurturing relationships in person through networking events and professional gatherings, executive coaching can provide you with the tools and strategies you need to maximize your networking efforts. And hold you accountable to the tactics of execution.

Don’t wait until you need to start building your network. You should be focused on your network as much as you are focused on your business or career. Remember, your network is your net worth, so invest wisely with the support of an executive coach.